shops for groceries
You go together. Usually you buy stuff from street vendors and farmers markets because they just have better stuff. Bucky likes looking around and finding the perfect produce.
kills the spiders
Bucky sets them free (bc he’s a gentle soul <3)
comes home drunk at 3am
Neither
makes breakfast
Whoever wakes up first, so usually Bucky.
remembers to feed the fish
Bucky does. He cares a lot about any pets you have.
decorates the apartment
You do. Bucky is more of a minimalist out of necessity. Though if he ever shows interest in a certain decorative item, you always get it.
initiates duets
You do. Bucky joins in if he knows the song well enough.
falls asleep first
Even though you try to stay up to make sure he falls asleep okay, it’s always you. On nights when he wakes up from nightmares, you comfort him until he falls asleep again.