he’s quite inexperienced when it comes to sexual stuff, so he likes it when his s/o takes over and shows him what feels good for you and what feels good for him. kurt really likes when he can wrap his arms around your waist, and sometimes he even lets his tail wind around your waist so it’s not uncomfortable. (he was quite insecure about it in the beginning, but you love the sentiment too much.)
he does top every once in a while, but generally, he likes being a bottom!