Could you do dating Bucky Barnes would include please?

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Dating Bucky xx 

(Also these are based on Post-WS, so if you want Pre-WS then let me know)

• He’s physically clingy, he’s always holding onto you in some way and touching you in some way and it’s less sexual and more about reassuring himself that he’s safe, that you’re safe, that you’re both there. 
• He’s protective, but he also understands that it’s okay to step in if you can’t handle it, but not to step in if you’re able to deal with it yourself. He respects your ability to handle stuff. 
• You go to therapy with him because he feels more comfortable doing it with you there, and he goes to therapy regularly and you don’t say anything, you just sit there holding his hand and his therapist actually thinks its a good idea that you’re there to provide emotional support and so that you can help apply his therapy to outside of the room and into real life. 
• You take him shopping with you, so he can see all the knew brands and things and so that he can get a sense of normality. 
• You show him that he’s okay to touch you with his metal hand/arm, that he has control, that he’s not going to hurt you by holding your hand with it. 
• You’re there for the nightmares when you have to build him back up and bring him back and remind him that it’s okay, and that sleep shouldn’t be his enemy.
• He babies you when you’re sick and it’s adorable but frustrating how doting he is when you’re not well
• He does sweet things like kiss your cheek and it’s seems so out of character for such a beefy man, but that just makes it more adorable. 
• He lets you mess with his hair and playing with his hair actually relaxes both of you and is a way for him to fall asleep on bad nights. 
• You make sure to take lots of photos and do scrapbooks for him so he knows that he won’t forget things you’ve done together, because he’s scared of forgetting and you need to remind him that he won’t.