older Michael is much more comfortable and into it, forget the soft scarf cuffs from his younger days, leather or metal cuffs, bind him in rope, wear some tight leather and he’ll already be twitching and ready to call you mistress or master, prefers less prepping and some pain when you start pounding him, a crop for if he misbehaves, after all your punishments are the most enjoyable, even a cockring to draw out his teasing, leave him there for awhile if he’s been bad. suffering begging for touch