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How and when they ask for sex (NSFW)

Zen

  • It’s not like sex is the only thing in his mind, but it is one of his favorite things to share with you
  • He wants it much more than he actually lets you know
  • Because he’s worried about getting too rough, about hurting you and though it’s very hard to make him talk about it, there’s that issue always buzzing his mind, and it has Jumin’s voice: you’re not married yet
  • But when you turn him on just right and show him that you want this as much as him, his concerns fade away
  • He believes in showing his love through gestures, and sex is one of the biggest gestures to show you how much he loves you,
  • Plus, he’s sexy and knows how to use this in his favor to win you over, even though he’s not exactly proud of this sometimes
  • He wishes he could just leave entirely up to you, but he can’t help initiating himself and taking the lead most of the times.
  • In conclusion, he could have sex everyday if it’s only up to him.

Yoosung

  • On one hand, we have the stamina of a young man and years of sexual desires bottled up, ready to explode
  • On the other hand, we have an insecure guy, desperate to please you, and worried about not being enough, about giving the wrong impression, about being weird and having weird interests in bed.
  • He’s touch starving, so cuddling is a constant in the relationship
  • Spooning, tangling his legs with yours, feeling shivers when you stroke his hair and nuzzle in his chest, you start kissing, panting harder…
  • Remember, years of sexual desires bottled up: boy always ends with a boner
  • He’ll get flustered and just wait for your reaction, letting it loose if you decide to go further
  • Will get bolder as the relationship progresses
  • He would like to have sex everyday, but due to his studies, it’s not possible.

Jaehee

  • As much as sex wasn’t that constant on her life, she’s not really sexualy frustrated
  • Because it’s not the main thing for her in your relationship and yeah, it’s good, but it’s not on the top of her list as the best way to connect with you
  • She likes talking, watching live musicals or movies, going out to have fun
  • And in private, she enjoys cooking, reading, holding hands and cuddling
  • So sex isn’t the focus, but it’s something she’ll engage more to it if you like it a lot
  • She’s very romantic and gentle, feeling more comfortable in the receiving end
  • But she can get a little wilder if you tease her a lot, good luck in that case
  • I say 2-3 times a week, it can be more depending in your interest

Jumin

  • He would have zero interest in sex before you came along
  • Now he’s dealing with a very unfamiliar and restless feeling: curiosity.
  • Yep, he is curious and imaginative these days, will it feel good now that he’s experiencing sex along with love? How good? What can he do to make it better for you, and consequently, to him?
  • So he does ask you “Do you want to have sex?” it can be a little blunt, but it’s never out of the mood- that he carefully made sure to set before
  • He’s gentle and constantly lets his insecurities slip up in intimate moments, amazed at how much this isn’t a problem, since you make him feel so comfortable
  • But it can get rough if you’re feeling it, it’s surprising even to himself at how good he is in not being coy
  • He’s also a perfectionist, so testing possibilities until he finds the ones that work for both of you it’s normal
  • I’d say 3 to 4 times a week, but it could be more if you guys stay apart for a long time

Saeyoung

  • Sex was never linked to romance for him before
  • So sometimes he is worried if he will really be a match for you in that sense. What if he’s too rough? What if you think sex is the only thing he wants from you?
  • That’s why he focuses a lot on your pleasure, he doesn’t mind finishing with oral or fingering you and no penetration
  • And though he likes planning ahead, like having a romantic date and knowing it will lead to sex, he prefers when it happens spontaneously
  • Specially when it’s super lazy and sloppy, like when you’re waking up or taking a shower together (that it was supposed to be an innocent shower)
  • He doesn’t mind who initiates, but it’s really nice when it’s you, because then he will have no doubt about your desires
  • He’s very playful and teasing, but takes things very seriously when it comes to showing his love through sex
  • 5 times a week, depending on how you’re feeling

Jihyun

  • Sex is not his favorite aspect of your relationship
  • Though he likes the sharing, the bonding and the vulnerability of it
  • But it’s not his focus at all, since there are tons of other ways of bonding, after all
  • When he really wants it, he will ask for it: “Can we make love right now?”
  • Extremely gentle, so much sometimes you’ll have to remind him you’re not made of glass
  • Though he can show a rougher side if you tease him just right or if he’s feeling jealousy for some reason
  • And as much as there are other things he enjoys more in your relationship, your face in pure ecstasy and pleasure is one of the most beautiful things he’s even seen, and seeing it is something he’ll always want
  • Once or twice a week, and it will be very intense

Saeran

  • After the events in Mint Eye, he’s very reticent when it comes to sex
  • He would never forgive himself if he ever did something against your will
  • So he will never, ever, start something if you don’t say explicitly that you want him in this sense
  • Never asks for it, at least not intentionally
  • Because sometimes you guys are cooking together, or cuddling, and he will get a little too excited if you whisper sweet nothings in his ear or sigh in satisfaction when he kisses you
  • Extremely romantic and gentle, he’s truly thankful you would give such a grace to him, so he’ll make sure you have the best time with him
  • The best and the longest, if I may say.
  • 3 to 4 times a week, or everyday if you really want to